怎么知道自己松不松呢

儿子往上飞父亲向下沉这位父亲的心结是儿子所追求的成功是对自己人生的否定、他多么希望儿子踩着自己的轨迹重走一遍如此他便是永远的导师儿子很聪明他用这样的话卸下父亲的心防：I know you and me don’t exactly see eye to eye on certain things. But I come to believe that I got it in me to be somebody in this world.it’s cause I’m the same. I can be just as hardheaded and just as tough. I only hope I can be as good a man as you are.